The Circle of Giving

Corn is linked with Hopi females--both are fruitful and bear children, thus assuring the continuity of life. The Hopi bride is philosophically connected with corn. Cornmeal and its preparation appear repeatedly in the Hopi wedding activities. Sometimes a couple must wait several years until they can accumulate the amount of corn and other goods necessary for their wedding.

The couple depends upon the cooperation of their families and friends. Families pool their resources, and past favors are returned in the joint effort of kin who prepare the gifts that must be exchanged.

The bride is joined by female relatives and friends, who help her grind a vast amount of cornmeal, as much as 800 to 1,000 pounds, which is mounded high in bowls and tubs. They bake piles of folded piki and small blue-corn tamales, and they take turns stirring pikami, a corn pudding, with a big stick in galvanized tubs. Women also contribute numbers of basketry trays to hold the corn gifts, which will be presented to the groom's family.

Meanwhile, the male members of the groom's family and community spin and weave the cotton garments for the bridal outfit.